So look, your back does not look dissimilar to my CIS wife’s back, and while she is not a powerlifter we do both actively strength train 3 days a week. Your dysphoria is totally valid, but all I saw when you shared was a woman’s muscled back. They’ll probably go as you keep going on HRT, but it’s worth keeping in mind the lens you’re seeing your back in doesn’t necessarily reflect how you come across.

You want to navigate to the actual instance itself, then there will be a three dot options menu on the top right to block community. I do this plenty for nsfw instances.

Just be cause she doesn’t seem to have a problem being out to everyone doesn’t mean she doesn’t or didn’t. It is important to keep in mind there could have been struggles you are completely unaware of. And, if perhaps there were not, that only means that your situation is slightly different. Coming out like this is your choice, but pre-framing an interaction can help a final push for you to reveal what is hard. This kind of strategy has at least helped me make a hard admission in the past.

What I mean is to try to schedule a ‘conversation.’ Let her know that it is a serious subject matter, but be sure to clarify it is not a negative subject. It is something you want to discuss, and you would appreciate her time and attention.

Communication is the most important thing here. The point about you feeling it better if she sees you as a man is a sticky one, but her doing that if that is how you wish to present is a signal of respect for your wishes in the relationship. Her only wanting to do one thing and not taking an interest in what you like is also something you really need to talk to her about. Make it clear what you want, and how you feel about feeling like you are the only one taking interest in doing what she wants.

Really, talking is how you resolve this. But be prepared for it not to go how you expect or something feasibly not being workable. Keep yourself first and make a judgment call on how much you are willing to put up with. People can change, but it takes genuine desire, deep effort, and backsliding and regression can happen.

Shitty property planning with no off-street parking results in people needing to park on the street in a car centric city where you need a car to function.

Not city/property planning’s fault tho, it’s the people with no choice but to park on the street that are the problem!

/s

Ffs, sure there is the case of some dick parking outside your home, but the real problem is with city and property planning. Not the fault of individial owners by and large.

Love the skirt!

And the tits :D

She was horny and it made you uncomfortable. You could have stood to voice that discomfort, and perhaps that could be part of your guilt. However, you don’t owe anyone your time, and if it is not pleasant interacting with a person, it is best for you both to cut it off before something very unpleasant could happen.

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