Don’t have a partner atm, but if I am dating someone, I don’t mind checking in a couple of times a day, but two things:

• my partner shouldn’t expect me to reply immediately.
• checking in should be for a reason (ex: you come across a silly dad joke and you want to share), for instance the daily good morning/good night would eventually feel like a chore to me in the long run, like a list of things you need to tick off on a checklist.

I’m forever thankful I don’t have to deal with chalk dust now that we have whiteboards!

I almost wanted to ask mods if this Lemmy server is an exclusive club like discord, luckily I hold my impulse.

No lah, everyone is welcome!