I totally understand that. I’ve always found the idea that Schopenhauer just forgot to eat and got cranky when he was writing sometimes to be very funny (which is an Existential comics bit). You might enjoy Kierkegaard then too, even if he does get a little preachy, he very much loves and hates his morose Christianity.
Look, there was friendly-fire in r/cth all the time, it was an assumed part of the deal, ans we are getting used to it again.