I really don’t think there’s a Bible because it’s so personal. One of the big challenges I had parenting was accepting that I couldn’t maximise every value. The parenting skill tree is brutal 😅
That said, while I personally have issues with a lot of her conclusions the underlying philosophy of Cribsheet is good. Personally I absolutely loved Hunt Gather Parent and it has really helped me, but I suspect mainly because it ties with my existing values
My 17 month old has just learned how to come to me for a kiss on her "ouch"s.
Today she has developed Hand Foot and Mouth 🙃