Ask to DM, or invite them to DM you.

Also, make sure you actually establish a rapport. A couple of comments back and forth in a sub is premature. If you see them commenting regularly on things, then engage there, over a period of time. Let them get a feel for you

Bear in mind that reddit is not usually a good place to find a partner. I say usually because I actually met my fiancée on reddit…

We’re very much the exception rather than the rule though

Good luck to you!

I got permanently banned for violence

I said “bad bot” to someone saying Elmo didn’t do a nazi salute

I did the IP thing

It’s definitely device fingerprinting

Still banned straight away

There’s more to device recognition than IMEI, and I was using the proper app out of convenience

I want it in my pocket, not on a computer

They were a nazi

They thought it was funny because they liked it

I guess they had a problem with being told that supporting Musk’s sig heil gestures as “funny” meant they were cool with nazis

They’ll use whoever is useful

As a New Zealander, I endorse this message

I’m a lucky bastard!

So are you

This probably sounds like some sort of line, but I really don’t notice other people

I can see someone and recognise that they’re beautiful, or even sexy, but I don’t find them attractive

My woman is the most beautiful in the world, and I just don’t have any interest in anyone else. I really don’t notice them

Good to know!

I’ll lie low for a while. I had a cult following for my “performance art” so I’m not exactly easy to miss when I post one of my creative efforts…

I’d usually agree, but for the fact that it’s absolutely skewering Trump and Vance

Absolutely no idea! It’s not something I’ve looked at. I don’t have a home internet connection, I don’t need one, so I just have my phone

I’ll see if I can wait out an IP ban, apparently those only last around 100 days or so before they dump the data

I’m here because I got permanently banned for violence

I said “bad bot” to a nazi.

I doubt they’ll ever reinstate the people they’ve banned. They ban based on IMEI numbers, so it’s impossible to make another account unless you get a new device

It’s incredibly disturbing

Hopefully it has them both absolutely seething

Why not?

Because people are weird

Hopefully it made you laugh at least!

It was very creepy, and very malicious

It all depends on the vibe

I’m a naturist, so nudity in itself isn’t inherently sexual to me

That means that it’s more about the “intent” of what I’m seeing. Just seeing someone naked only means they’re naked. If there’s an effort made with sexy undies, or a particular pose, or even just a mischievous look in her eye, that’s what’ll get my motor running