Instead you should ask “where should we move to?”

How do you pay too many taxes? Aren’t you supposed to be able to know how much to pay?

Cause the name is hard to remember… I was trying to yesterday and the closest I could get is megatron and megalodon

Ultimately I think it was just how easy he was to get along with and how much fun we had together. He was also open minded and loved to discuss and brainstorm and ponder about things which I love too. Most people don’t care about anything I have to say. Thanks for the thoughtful response.

It’s weird cause he said he’s done more for me than he has for anyone in his family or in his life… but still, he has commitment issues and a whole host of other issues too so it doesn’t matter does it

Yeah… interesting poem I came across

I don’t believe in the one true love bs. I thought that about my first real boyfriend. Then I got over that eventually.

The point is this person was objectively better than most. That’s different. It’s not even about love.

Anyway I’ve never liked this line of thinking, it’s very just world fallacy-esque. “Its your fault if things don’t work out because you brought this upon yourself and deserve it” no thanks

I mean I’m ready for something new but everything is a massive disappointment

You’re right, but where I live the people are very closed minded and most of the expats are married and older with kids and family or are digital nomads who plan to leave soon/live in their coliving spaces and only interact with other nomads 💀

I think you should take it easy on that… word will eventually get around and it’s not good for your career to be doing that imo. Especially if you have any more misunderstandings with people.

Even though you don’t think you did anything wrong you are still ashamed of people finding out, so I think the only solution to that is to stop having e-sex with people in that way

Do exercise or go on walks together and eat healthy

Can you explain what exactly people should improve on? I had a relationship with someone I really liked not work out and as much as I reflect back on it I don’t really know what I should have done differently.

To me it’s weird that you saw she acted uncomfortable but continued it

Idk. My partners have pretty much never needed to vent or share anything with me. If they have it was very minor. That’s what made me feel like I should get a therapist instead. It would be mostly just me venting.

I found that my partner who was empathic felt very bad any time I told him how I was feeling, so this weighed much more heavily on him than my partner who lacked empathy. He was just annoyed and didn’t care about my stuff and wanted me to not talk.