I’m not a parent but i admire your principles. But I also think it’s important a kid knows they have family they could rely on to get them out of a situation without to much emotional torment. (So they feel comfortable taking the safe route out) with consequences later of course and reflection on lessons learned.

You want to Make sure she knows she could call you if she’s ever in a jam. Like sick at a party or her ride home is drunk etc. You made the right move IMO it’s important she knows she could trust you.