Best when you have a shelter waiting for you.

Also don’t try to stay to “fix” it, because there’s literally no point and you’re just going to give your abuser extra time to hurt you more and jeopardize your chances of being able to leave, and in all honesty don’t tell your abuser you’re leaving.

Secure a safe place, have your most important stuff packed, and just go. You likely won’t have the time or energy to pack every single thing, and trying to is just probably going to backfire on you. Make sure location services are turned off or disabled, and if necessary do a factory reset on the phone and/or computer if you think it’s been tampered with. Also change your number as soon as possible if they start trying to bombard your communications, and be careful to also stay safe away from flying monkeys.

Fuck abusive assholes

Before long you start to remember who you were before you were pound into dust.

“Oh, I used to like doing this!”

This is such good advice. When you find that you are with someone truly toxic… get tf out. It’s the only way to be well.

This is the best advice and it’s what i did. People love their drama though. Best way to hurt Reddit is to ignore them and not click on their site.