Hey, what’s everyones dating experience?
I went on a few dates but never had any luck. I noticed most girls basically want the guy to be downtown, have a fairly good job and among other things.
After reading self-made man, I kinda get the feeling the author is not wrong. Woman tend to put men on probation, even unfairly.
Take a look at how many woman are murdered by there partners. Take a look at how many woman experience sexual harassment or worse often at a very young age.
I think it’s pretty reasonable for a woman to put a man „on probation“ until he „probates“ himself.
None of this is your fault. But it’s also not the fault of the woman your dating.
And to be honest: everyone should take a very good look at a potential partner and be sure who this person is, that you try to spend (at least a significant part of) your life with.
So that’s a pretty big escalation and isn’t what she was discussing. Did you read her book? She was referring to when a woman gets hurt emotionally or whatever, she will take that experience and apply that to all men. Then basically the man is morally corrupt by default until proven otherwise.
