• enjoyingcarp650@lemmy.world
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    22 hours ago

    I just want to be touched. That’s it. I want someone to touch me and tell me how much they want me.

    My wife is going through chemo for breast cancer, and even before that she didn’t have the highest sex drive (that’s not a complaint, just a fact). And that’s fine, I don’t expect her to be into sex right now. Who would?

    But the last few months has just been non-stop. Kids birthdays, holidays, chores, after school sports, making lunches, groceries. It’s too much.

    I just want someone to take care of me for like twenty minutes.

    • RepressedLemmier@lemmynsfw.com
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      16 hours ago

      Ouch, sorry you are going through that, I feel the same.

      Normal sex is good, but, maybe I don’t need quite as much affection, but I would like a fellow explorer that would just feel me in, touch my body, and do things with me.

  • daggermoon@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    A goth girl to use me for her pleasure. Then after, she’d suck and/or jerk me off and make out with me. Then comes the aftercare. We’d snuggle in bed and she’s say nice things to me like “good boy”, " you did a great job", “mommy loves you” and other stuff of that nature. Then we’d sleep.

  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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    4 days ago

    Oh how I miss the threesomes we used to do with other guys. It’s funny - literally the second time I ever had sex as a teenager was with a couple of bi guys and it is such a delightful arrangement. Straight guy MFM too, that is fun.

    Alas, fucking HPV is a demonic virus when you get older and I was very lucky to clear it at all, and had to get part of my cervix burned off to finish the job. So monogamy it is, and each year I test clear.

  • NihilsineNefas@slrpnk.net
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    3 days ago

    The kinda hug that you end up face first in their chest, but can’t move because they’re wrapped around you.

  • axeman666@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 days ago

    Sex on stimulants. There’s really nothing better if you have a receptive partner and you both edge for hours.

  • playfulkittykat@pawb.social
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    4 days ago

    I wouldn’t mind being a party favour for a bunch of my friends… Or being hypnotized (even if it’s just pretend)… Or just getting mounted. That last one happens far too infrequently.

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      4 days ago

      Ever done something like this before? (party favour)

      What should happen after you are hypnotised?

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        3 days ago

        I have not! I definitely know enough people who’d be interested in that kind of party, I don’t think they see me in a sexual way. Plus I’m way too shy to ever organize something like that for myself 😳

        After hypnosis? I guess that’d be whatever the hypnotist wants ;3

        For me, hypnotism (or any related kind of play like conditioning) is about the act itself and the loss of control. I could go under, blackout, and wakeup an hour later and even if nothing happened, I’d still be very satisfied.

  • KuroiKaze@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    I haven’t had a great femdom play partner in a long while, would love to get back to being restrained and used as a plaything

  • PryanPoser@lemmynsfw.com
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    4 days ago

    My wife and I are planning a Nyotaimori night with a female friend, with my wife as the platter

    Starts off with drinks and undressing her.

    First course will be sushi, with chopsticks

    Round of drinks

    Second round is nigiri, using hands

    Round of drinks

    Third round is sashimi, using our mouthes.

    From there, see how the night goes.

  • pussycello@lemmynsfw.com
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    3 days ago

    Fuck, I’d love being in an orgy 🤤

    Too bad wife definitely doesn’t want to, so it will probably be a fantasy thing forever.