I’m a 21-year-old from a lower-middle-class family, and ever since I finished my intermediate studies at Superior College in 2023, I’ve carried a dream in my heart: to walk the leafy quad of a reputable university, to laugh with new friends in the cafeteria, to stay up late talking about life—and to build a future on my own terms. This wasn’t just my dream; it was my mom’s too. I carry her hopes with me every time I sit down to study.
But life had other plans. In 2023, when fees and expenses loomed larger than our savings, my family couldn’t afford to send me on that path. So I put my dream on hold and took a job instead. I started at ₨35,000 per month—and over the last year, through long nights and early mornings, I’ve fought my way up to ₨60,000. I work 8 PM–5 AM, head straight to the gym at 6 AM to clear my head, grab a quick bite, and try to catch 2–3 hours of sleep before doing it all again.
Now, at last, I feel ready to leap—and I want to enroll full-time. But the schedule I’m looking at scares me:
Work: 8 PM–5 AM, five nights a week
Gym: 6 AM–7 AM, for my physical and mental health
University: 8 PM–2 AM lectures, 30–40 km from home, four days a week
Sleep: Only about 2–3 hours a day
Commitment: This marathon would run for the next four years
I know the risks all too well: no safety net if I lose my job, the constant strain on my body and mind, the loneliness that comes with an upside-down schedule. And yet, every time I imagine my mom’s proud smile at my convocation, or the sense of belonging I’d feel on campus, I know I have to try.
My questions for you:
Sustainability: Can a nightly grind, early-morning workouts, and full-time studies truly work over four years—without burning out?
Strategies: What practical tips can help me juggle time, health, and finances? Are there ways to carve out rest, build an emergency fund, or streamline my commute?
Shared Journeys: Has anyone else lived this upside-down life—nights at work and days in class? How did you keep going, and what would you change if you could?
I pour these words out with hope—and with fear. But more than anything, I carry determination: to honor my mom’s dreams, to prove to myself that I am capable of more, and to finally step into the world of campus life I’ve always imagined. Any advice, shared stories, or even just a few words of encouragement would mean the world to me. Thank you for listening.
Not to demotivate u but that’s not gonna work in the long term. You might be able to pull it off for few weeks or even months and u might even feel good about it but then it’s all gonna come crashing down and it will be very hard to just get back to your current lifestyle. You’ll have to make some sacrifice’s. A financial tip I can give u is to use ur skills to work on upwork or Fiverr to earn in dollars instead of local job. Its much more flexible with hours and pays well. (Downvoted because of AI slop)
