So, yes, I still like Karl, the guy I’ve been talking about, but I can be attracted to more than one person.
So, Nichole (17F) and I (18nb) have been talking a lot more recently. We’ve been friends since sophomore year (she was a freshman) but we haven’t really talked until recently.
I started to gain feelings for her after we did more stuff together, like calling.
Quite recently, we were discussing sex, and she said she would be down to have sex with me.
She also said that we could date if I wanted to, but if I didn’t see her that way, we could just be friends with benefits.
Would you tell someone that you’d bang them or date them if you didn’t like them?
Yeah, probably not
Hmm, hard to tell. Maybe if you guys got married, that could be a sign that she likes you. Then again, maybe she just likes the thought of being married, so still can’t be too sure.
Yeah, if it wasn’t for op’s previous posts I’d be tempted to think this was trolling…
True, I guess I was just in disbelief. Thank God for my previous posts 😓 I guess I already know the answer then, just that some people are FWB
Well, of course she likes you :)
Assuming you aren’t a troll since I’ve seen other posts and we’ve interacted before, some people can be in denial about whether their crush actually likes them. Don’t worry, she does! 🌺
I also wouldn’t bang someone or even be “down to have sex with” I wasn’t into, and I wouldn’t tell them we could date if they wanted to.
Friends with benefits exist, but she’s saying you guys can be if you don’t want to date her. Doesn’t really sound platonic to me. (I’ve also never had sex with anyone who wasn’t my current girlfriend, but still.)