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Sunshine (she/her) to Mental Health@lemmy.world · 3 months ago

When They Become the Person You Wanted—for Someone Else

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When They Become the Person You Wanted—for Someone Else

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Sunshine (she/her) to Mental Health@lemmy.world · 3 months ago
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When an ex moves quickly with a new partner, taking steps they weren't willing to take before, it's normal to wonder what you did wrong. But your worthiness isn't likely the issue; it's this.
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    Human relationships are so fucking complicated and irrational.

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    The lesson: stop trying to “be better” or “make everything better” all the time in a relationship, as that’s a surefire way to get your significant other to expect more out of you.

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    Thanks. needed that.

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    We love and learn. Things are easier on second try.

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