When I was writting that, I assumed it was about the party, so clearly not so unambiguous. It could conceiveably refer to either - doubly so in casual speech where rules are bent. Fill up a books worth of text about a character using they/them pronouns (esspecially written by a bad writer) and you get confused often.
To be clear, in ideal English, its easy to use. Most English is not ideal, with words being changed, dropped, reordered, ect. based on the speaker or writer’s whim in the moment. All that is before factoring in regional varients of English.
Yes. Criticsm of the English language for not better supporting non-binary people. So transphobic. By advocating for the creation of a new non-gendered word, I’m not advocating for a more inclusive language, I’m actually part of a conspiracy with anyone who ever supported or used pronouns like “Xer”, “Zer”, and “Hir” to destroy trans rights.
Also, you’re accusing me of not knowing English, when its literally my first and only language. If that is your rebuttal, clearly you don’t have much to back up your beliefs.
Edit: and when I went to your profile to check for qualifications, literally the top one is admitting to being a hexbear user. You’re really singling out shitjustworks as problematic?
English being your first and only language isn’t much of a brag when half this country can barely read lol. And yeah I’ll happily call out your terrible instance, it’s full of transphobes that your admins refuse to do anything about.
Maybe you should just listen to the people that identify that way and use these pronouns in their lives and don’t have problems. I’ve read 2 trilogies recently, both worlds having an additional gender that uses they/them pronouns, one of the series has them as a POV character. Not confusing at all and one book of it makes you use to it real fast
English being your first and only language isn’t much of a brag when half this country can barely read lol.
You you think those people benefit from not having a non-gendered, singular pronoun they can use? Because those people are the ones who determine how language use used.
Maybe you should just listen to the people that identify that way and use these pronouns in their lives and don’t have problems.
My problem isn’t with people picking that as a pronoun. For all I care, someone could pick something straight out of Who’s on First and I’d use it. My problem is that there is a single “accepted” non-binary set of pronouns, and it overlaps with the only plural set. If “they” is the word someone is most comfortable with, so be it. At the same time, it shouldn’t be, effectively, the only option.
I’ve read 2 trilogies recently, both worlds having an additional gender that uses they/them pronouns, one of the series has them as a POV character. Not confusing at all and one book of it makes you use to it real fast
I’ve read a few books featuring non-binary characters using they/them pronouns. One was fine, two I had to drop because I kept having to double take what I read. As you said, half the US can barely read. Some of those people are authors. If they can’t communicate their ideas, then the language is failing. English needs to be (or rather, will end up being) usable by everyone, and if anything, you implying that I’m not intelligent enough to use “they” right proves my point.
When I was writting that, I assumed it was about the party, so clearly not so unambiguous. It could conceiveably refer to either - doubly so in casual speech where rules are bent. Fill up a books worth of text about a character using they/them pronouns (esspecially written by a bad writer) and you get confused often.
To be clear, in ideal English, its easy to use. Most English is not ideal, with words being changed, dropped, reordered, ect. based on the speaker or writer’s whim in the moment. All that is before factoring in regional varients of English.
Shitjustworks not knowing what they’re talking about and being transphobic, classic
Yes. Criticsm of the English language for not better supporting non-binary people. So transphobic. By advocating for the creation of a new non-gendered word, I’m not advocating for a more inclusive language, I’m actually part of a conspiracy with anyone who ever supported or used pronouns like “Xer”, “Zer”, and “Hir” to destroy trans rights.
Also, you’re accusing me of not knowing English, when its literally my first and only language. If that is your rebuttal, clearly you don’t have much to back up your beliefs.
Edit: and when I went to your profile to check for qualifications, literally the top one is admitting to being a hexbear user. You’re really singling out shitjustworks as problematic?
English being your first and only language isn’t much of a brag when half this country can barely read lol. And yeah I’ll happily call out your terrible instance, it’s full of transphobes that your admins refuse to do anything about.
Maybe you should just listen to the people that identify that way and use these pronouns in their lives and don’t have problems. I’ve read 2 trilogies recently, both worlds having an additional gender that uses they/them pronouns, one of the series has them as a POV character. Not confusing at all and one book of it makes you use to it real fast
You you think those people benefit from not having a non-gendered, singular pronoun they can use? Because those people are the ones who determine how language use used.
My problem isn’t with people picking that as a pronoun. For all I care, someone could pick something straight out of Who’s on First and I’d use it. My problem is that there is a single “accepted” non-binary set of pronouns, and it overlaps with the only plural set. If “they” is the word someone is most comfortable with, so be it. At the same time, it shouldn’t be, effectively, the only option.
I’ve read a few books featuring non-binary characters using they/them pronouns. One was fine, two I had to drop because I kept having to double take what I read. As you said, half the US can barely read. Some of those people are authors. If they can’t communicate their ideas, then the language is failing. English needs to be (or rather, will end up being) usable by everyone, and if anything, you implying that I’m not intelligent enough to use “they” right proves my point.