• OceanSoap@lemmy.ml
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    10 months ago

    I guess it means on what you define “become.”

    I think it’s definitely possible like that some just don’t know they are, but become curious at some point and try. I think that probably happens less now though, since access to porn is so easy for younger people these days, there’s probably not a lot of people that are unaware by say, age 20.

    I know people experience things differently, but I went through a questioning period about being bisexual. Turns out nope, I’m straight as they come.

    • scarabic@lemmy.world
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      10 months ago

      I wouldn’t count on porn as a reliable way to explore and understand your sexuality. I still don’t find much appeal in gay porn but I came out as bi when I finally experienced having an older and more sophisticated man pursue me. Sexual dynamics were always the other way around with girls growing up and to flip that was a revelation for me. Far more emotional and situational than anything you could capture on video.