• PyroNeurosis@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    20 days ago

    Material difference of specific pronouns? Someone feels better, and I’m out no extra effort, I guess…

    It’s as much difference as personal preference in chocolate bar brands.

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      20 days ago

      I totally get respecting specific pronouns, no confusion there.

      I don’t see how the scenario presented in OP is different from wanting to be referred to in the third person.

      • PyroNeurosis@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        20 days ago

        Ah! Effectively none.

        Which does bring up an unusual case: how should drag be referred to as part of a group? They and drag? Or would just they suffice?

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          20 days ago

          Some degree of identity erasure is inherent with mass pronouns; interesting question!

        • Dragon Rider (drag)@lemmy.nzOP
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          20 days ago

          They. It’s the same as if you refer to a group of people with a man in it. The “he” is discarded. Drag doesn’t use plural independent pronouns.

          • jerkface
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            19 days ago

            Okay but why not use the already gender-free pronouns I and you? That’s got nothing to do with being trans, does it?