The reason why I’m asking this question is because alot of my friends are saying that I’m a loser and weirdo because I’m 26 years old and I have never been on a date with anyone.

I don’t want to go on dates with anyone or go meet anyone parents or even have anyone live with me in my 1 bedroom condo.

All I want to do in life is play video games and watch anime all day and jerk off to my anime waifus everyday in my 1 bedroom condo because they’re hot as fuck.

But what do you guys think am I a loser for not wanting to go on a date with anyone ever or no?

  • Mk677yearroundOP
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    1 day ago

    If I met a woman that was into to anime and video games. I would ask for her discord username so that I can play video games with her and talk about anime with her on discord. But I would still never go on a date with her because I love being by myself and not having any responsibilities in life.

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      22 hours ago

      Asking for her discord and playing games together IS a date homie, even virtually. Just not the classic traditional date in that sense. My wife and I have been together for 21 years and have a son together. We still watch anime and play video games. It’s like I’m on a date with her everyday. In my case, not virtually.

      It’s all about sharing experience together.

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        18 hours ago

        I agree that me asking for her discord and playing video games with her online could be considered a date to alot of people.

        But my reason for asking her discord and playing video games with her online is just so I can have a new friend. I do not want to date her and have her move in with me. Because I like being myself and having no responsibilities in life.

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          17 hours ago

          Fair. Counter point, my wife and I are each other’s best friends. We trust each other’s deepest secrets and we depend on each other. We just find it more convenient to communicate with each other’s friendship in person and in the same house.

          You can also have a similar, if not exact relationship online.