Why not both?

But for real though you don’t have to cry to feel something, obviously. If anything I think crying makes it easier to process. At least in my experience. But at the same time when I was growing up I was stuck in the “crying isn’t manly” mentality. Also keep in mind I was in highschool when I watched it the first time. So it was also a “I’m depressed so I wanna watch a sad movie to make me cry” kinda mood but didn’t cry either. It feels almost selfish in a way, which is probably why I didn’t. So if you’re fucked in the head, so was I back than. :)

This movie still fucked me up though… Great movie too.