So I’ve been trying to figure out my sexuality and what sort of stuff I like, and I’ve stumbled upon a bit of a roadblock; I just don’t find vaginas or dicks that attractive. If I’m watching some porn or whatever and they zoom in to people’s junk, that’s a bit of a turn off. Honestly they just look like messy meat to me.
So I figured I’d ask; do you like dick/vagina pics? How much does it matter for how attractive you find someone?
… And you know what, since I’m asking things, shaven or unshaven?
To echo a couple common points:
Don’t use porn as a metric. It’s like eating straight sugar instead of a healthy diet.
It’s the whole package that matters. If I don’t care for the person, they could have a golden crotch and I wouldn’t care
That being said, cleanliness, hygiene and at least trimmed.
Then it’s about making each other feel good. Everything else will develope for you over time.
Definitely don’t force it. If you are not comfortable, or it grosses you out, then stop.
Try not to stress and have fun. Exploration should be part of the enjoyment, but it won’t be fun if you and your partner don’t feel comfortable or safe.