• NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone
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    4 months ago

    The way my counsellor put it was “straight people don’t spend a lot of time wondering whether they’re gay”.

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      • psud@aussie.zone
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        4 months ago

        Your experience (of figuring out who you’re attracted to) isn’t the universal experience

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            I would argue that your “is active on social media and has an ounce of introspection” applies just as well to the gay/straight spectrum as the neurodivergence spectrum.