• Jesus@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    As someone who dated a stripper in college and got to know a lot of those folks outside of work, trust me, you don’t actually want a stripper girlfriend.

    Edit: That said, the guitar is a fine choice.

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      8 months ago

      Well this is just begging the question for the rest of us: why not?

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        8 months ago

        If you want a stripper girlfriend you must be cool with her doing stripper things, but it turns out a lot of guys aren’t.

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          8 months ago

          Yeah that part makes sense haha. Wasn’t sure if that was still her occupation or not at the time.

      • Jesus@lemmy.world
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        8 months ago

        Well, let’s just say that the likelihood to encounter people with a history of trauma, or atypical perspectives on intimacy, goes up.

        In my case, I was dating someone that never really learned what normal displays of public affection looked like. Which created some very awkward moments for me and the people around me.

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          8 months ago

          If I held any value in what a made up man had to say about the subject I guess.

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            8 months ago

            Well he is the person who accosted you on the subject. Self-reportedly, that is