• littleblue✨@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    Yes.

    Straight swap, in my experience, makes the menage é trois that much more satisfying for everyone if the 4th spot is a helper position that each person can opt into as needed (rest, refocus, etc.)

    Also, don’t forget that there are many different ways to “participate” in group sex that are not actively genital on genital action. Spectating is a valid position if someone’s into it, and just like ropeplay et al, is great for group fun. 🤙🏼

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      4 months ago

      This is an interesting take on group dynamics that I hadn’t considered before. its like coming at it with a playbook. I can see it now…“OMAHA, OMAHA”…center proceeds to fumble, lol

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        4 months ago

        If you aren’t going into a sec act without the pleasure of another (+/-) in mind, you’re doing it wrong from the jump. But, yeah, I hear you. It’s heartening that this resonates, so good on ya! 🤘🏽