• ryan213
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    11 months ago

    Because of her weight or what she’s saying? Or both?

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      11 months ago

      There’s likely some deep rooted trauma there which would be beneficial to have some professional guidance to uncover and address through rational eyes. Our brains will create defence mechanisms to protect itself from perceived harm, but the mechanism may not be a healthy one. A professional can help sus out areas of concern for you and give you new tools for dealing with those emotions.

      Her unhealthy choices concerning social behavior and eating habits are likely symptoms of a deeper issue.

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        11 months ago

        Thanks once again kind stranger. You helped me not get angry at those bitches while also showing me the way to deal with mental problems.

        Although I should have known better to give importance to a shitpost.

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          Shitpost or not, there’s often an opportunity to reflect and learn. Best of luck my friend