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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/piinkglitterlicious on 2024-01-24 04:14:22+00:00.

I am 19f and my boyfriend is 22m. We’ve been dating for 3 years. I still live with my parents and am in my second year of college. He lives with his brother and his wife in a 3 bedroom apartment and pays $600 when the rent is $1250. Idk how much they pay in utilities and stuff. I’m at his apartment a lot, maybe 3-4 days a week and I spend the night 1-2 times a week. Sometimes I’m only there for a few hours. We stay in his room and only use the kitchen sometimes and clean everything up afterwards. Both of them work a lot and are rarely home. They have their own bedroom and my boyfriends brother has a game room.

Anyways they told my boyfriend I needed to pay rent or stop coming over all the time. My boyfriend doesn’t think this is fair because he already pays almost half the rent and but dad agrees that it’s unfair for me to be in their home all the time. I’m kind of conflicted because my boyfriend pays more than a third of the bills and we don’t bother them one bit. I have a job but I’m paying for school and a car and stuff so I don’t have a lot of extra money. So Reddit aita??