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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/Desperate_Door9186 on 2024-01-23 22:03:04+00:00.

Hi I (26F) & Husband(30) have been together for over 3 years but over the duration of our time, you can I say I ended up with a hardworking man who always try’s to the provide for everyone, include outside of family . We have fights about it in the past but recently his mom been dating this guy for while . They bought a new car together and have moved in together . The guy is pretty well set off , however whenever anything she needs new or needs, she’s runs to my husband. So eventually her phone hasn’t been working, and he feels the need to buy her a new phone knowing there are total of 2 other siblings that can help out as well. All who make 6 figured salary but lately we have been tight on money and with a our first baby on the way, I don’t find it fair , knowing we still have things to buy & I am on maternity leave. Am I the asshole for wanting to tell my husband he should not need to buy his mom a new phone and that it’s better she tells her boyfriend to buy it for her , since they have already moved in together and bought a luxury car together , what makes it different that he needs too?