Research says involuntary celibate men make “fundamental errors” about what women want in a partner.

    • CulturedLout
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      10 months ago

      Try interacting with women without the expectation of an intimate relationship. And I don’t mean “be friends for a while with the end goal of getting with them”. I think a big issue is seeing women as an achievement instead of as people.

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        10 months ago

        The thing is women don’t want male friends as well. They are taught by society that men are all perverts and dangerous. So when men try to make friends, they’re automatically suspicious or just straight up reject them.

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          10 months ago

          What? Most women I know, including myself, have male friends. What are you on about? Are you doing a bit, per your username?

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            10 months ago

            Must you insult people when you reply? Is that really necessary? I’m not gonna reply anyore so don’t bother, since you seem to lack basic respect.

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              10 months ago

              You just insulted half the human species with your creepy incel comment. I owe you no respect.

    • afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world
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      10 months ago

      I am not sure exactly what to advise, I imagine the longer you don’t do something about this the worst is going to get. So maybe be proactive?