kbin’s doing pretty well isn’t it? I thought it was sort of comparable to lemmy in active users. I don’t know anything about tildes though.

I know for my part, I probably contributed to overloading kbin.social by opening an account there. I guess I read that it’s best in lemmy to choose something other than the really big instances to spread the load a bit and did so, but somehow in my mind I thought kbin = kbin.social?