Usually when someone is venting at me, I feel like I should respond somehow and say something, but I have no idea what that something could/should be. Is it better to just listen or try to comfort them in some way?
Usually when someone is venting at me, I feel like I should respond somehow and say something, but I have no idea what that something could/should be. Is it better to just listen or try to comfort them in some way?
It depends on the person, but what you definitely shouldn’t do is disagree or try to correct them. Not because they can’t be wrong, but because they came to you to have someone hear their problems. I think advice should be given later, in a different conversation, or if asked for. Agreement or confirmation that you’re listening and understand are best.
Now if they aren’t sharing their problems, but are instead just ranting at you about something you disagree with, feel free to tell them how dumb they are.