• Spuddlesv2
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    4 months ago

    I shouldn’t have used your specific circumstance as an example and I apologise for that. I have absolutely no idea what you’ve been through and shouldn’t ever have made assumptions or attempted to use it to try to make my point.

    More women would definitely help. Cop culture is massively macho, male dominated, even if there are some women in some positions of power.

    Someone who decides to hit their spouse or child is a piece of shit. Someone who hurts any other innocent person intentionally is a piece of shit. Drug dealers are pieces of shit. The list is endless.

    If someone with a drug dependence hurts another person while intoxicated then that’s a criminal matter. Part of their sentence would undoubtedly be rehabilitation, as it should.

    If someone hurts another person then that’s a criminal matter. Part of their sentence would undoubtedly be rehabilitation.

    If someone hurts a spouse or child… etc.

    I don’t think singling out one group of criminals for special treatment is the answer.

    No one wakes up one day and decides to be an awful human, for sure. It takes time and practise, and people around them ignoring it or even enabling it.

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      4 months ago

      The point is to deal with mens issues before they’re hurting others.

      Yes there should be other solutions should prevention fail, yet the focus should remain on prevention to minimise harm to the greatest number of people.

      Prevention is the best strategy for literally everyone.

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        4 months ago

        Or possibly we should focus more on helping the victims and then once they’re properly sorted out we can start looking at how to further assist the perpetrators.

        If situations like this, and more generally movements like metoo, have taught us anything it’s that men in positions of power can make it difficult or nigh on impossible for women to be heard. Let’s help them first.