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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • I know. Not as bad as you had, but I have been in a toxic relationship before and it’s like being boiled alive slowly. You don’t get it at first and it takes a long time to register somethings wrong.

    I don’t want to waste your time with platitudes like “time will heal your wounds” or some shit. But if you want to hear my advice: Hit the gym, play that video game you couldn’t the last few years, cook some extravagant stuff and go on a long trip in a foreign country. Preferably with only a backpack, away from big cities. Its gonna be expensive, but hey: you have already proven that you deserve better 😉







  • I am sorry to hear this. I’m not sure how I would have reacted when things went down like it did with you last year. I think I would have handled the entire repair guy thing way worse than you did. Then again, I think I am (relatively speaking) the mentally unstable one in our relationship.

    I think you did the right thing by continuing to work on your relationship and sticking around when many would have bailed long ago. That is admirable.

    But there is working on a relationship and there is working on not getting harmed by your partner. You have to take care for yourself and your future happiness. I don’t see happiness in your relationship and I think you don’t too anymore. It will suck a lot at first, but it’s the right thing to do.