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Cake day: June 9th, 2023

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  • After completely tearing my back muscles apart back in march, and being in sweet sweet pain for months. I decided to go back to school and embrace my nerd side.

    I started college at 35 and also got accepted in university. I fucking love school (never would have said that at a younger age) and learning about computer networking and cybersecurity!

    I also found love with a mother of 2 kids and it’s been really great, she likes my nerd side and let me do my things :)

    Getting bad injuries can really fuck someone up, and feeling depressed from it all is a legitimate reaction. Seeking help from a social worker (because the wait list for a therapist is insane) was a lifesaver. Talking to someone who is NOT a friend was so refreshing.


  • Un autre aspect frustrant c’est qu’une fois que ton tour arrive, le médecin est super frileux de te prescrire des pillules ou de t’arrêté de travaillé plus que 2 semaines. Donc tu dois y retourné même pas 2 semaines après pour ravoir un billet ou une prescription…

    J’ai subis ça à 2 reprises après des +14h d’attente, “prend des relaxants et un ti break de 2 semaines, ça va bin allé!”

    J’ai fini par me faire attitré un médecin de famille… Le pire c’est que j’ai fini avec 4 mois d’arrêt parce que j’avais les muscles du dos tout déchiré finalement…






  • Not exactly young adult but I’m 35 and see friends almost weekly. If not in person I at least chat/voice chat with some of them.

    I don’t have kids, currently dating someone with 2 boys though. I don’t take any overtime at work but I have online classes at night so I plan on dropping my hours by half. Also, I don’t bring any work home with me. I separate the 2, religiously. (I am unionized, makes it easier to do so)

    I live in a small city, far from any metropolitan area, people are so much more friendlier here.

    IMO, it’s all about hobbies. My hobbies align with most of my friends and I have more than one circle of friends.

    I moved over 20 times in my life, different cities and all. So I know how to make new friends, I honestly think it’s a skill. At the same time, friendship goes both ways, if you’re the only one putting the work on the friendship, it’s not really gonna work.

    I have friends working on their PhDs and even post-PhDs (or whatever it’s called) and they usually have time to see me / friends 3 or 4 times a month.

    So yeah, I have a fulfilling social life, it’s not like that all year round mind you, things change and people need breaks and what not sometimes.








  • peeBoxtoQuébec*Permanently Deleted*
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    2 years ago

    Je suis nouveau sur lemmy et la fediverse mais si j’ai bien compris, chaque serveur ou site (lemmy.ml / sh.itjust.works / etc), ont leurs propres communautés.

    Si tu as enregistré ton compte sur lemmy.ca par exemple, tu peux quand-même accéder et suivre une communauté (subreddit) basé sur lemmy.ml ou autres.

    Le problème avec ça c’est que tu peux avoir des doublons de “subreddit”. Exemple une communauté Québec sur lemmy.ml et une autre du même nom sur lemmy.ca.