

oh, no, to be clear: this isn’t about the sex/sluttiness - I have no issue with that at all. in a more general sense (over the wider set of things aella), her positioning herself as a “sex researcher” but often using that to bash specific groups or put out a specific narrative, that is far more problematic
but regarding this specific thing, tho: the “forced a tattoo on me” bit specifically, and all the rationalists doing their weird quasi-intellectual arguing with everyone who asks questions. the “forced” wording feels … intentionally bait&switch? presumably (…hopefully?) there’s mutual consent here, so it’s a fucking choice to go frame the event that way
time amplifying the nonsense around saltman’s orb grift
features a helluva lot of words while at multiple points remaining entirely incurious about the claims it amplifies