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Cake day: June 10th, 2023

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  • The biggest thing for me was learning, remembering, and using people’s names. This may not be helpful for everyone (and that’s okay), but it helped me be a more confident person in social situations.

    Growing up I was painfully shy and awkward, but I had fantastic semantic memory and always did well on tests in school (does this sound like you?). One day, after I heard someone say “I’m terrible with names, sorry if I forget yours”, I decided to heck with it! I’m going to be good with names! If I can memorize pi to however many digits, I can memorize that many names of human beings.

    And it helped me :) People like it when you remember their name, and they like you more for using it. For me, unfamiliar things are scary, but knowing someone’s name makes them a familiarity. Plus, there’s a devilish part of me that delights in remembering someone’s name who clearly doesn’t remember mine. I always offer it easily, to not embarrass them. But it’s a reminder that everyone’s out here struggling to make connections just as much as I am - and I can handle it.

    Ps: it’s nice if you can let the person see you learn their name. It can feel creepy for a person to know your name without you telling them. If you learn someone’s name without them telling you, all you gotta do is hit them with a “your name’s Alex, right? Got it, thanks! I’m Daniel” and then you’re covered



  • Woah, you’re on OG! I’m unfamiliar with a lot of those things and had to look them up. Crazy!

    Hah! ISE - I used that for a hot second, and you still see tutorials using it as well.

    My goodness, tell me about it, I’m new and I already find myself frustrated with Xilinx sometimes. It feels like there are very few resources from them for learning, but I thought that was just because it’s a niche subject. I’ll have to take a look at Efinix. I guess I thought it was safer to stick to the biggest name while I’m trying to get established. At the moment I’m trying to get some example projects working on a Zybo Z7. I’m finding out that it’s a lot to take in

    Thanks for taking the time to reply! I feel strangely honored to hear from such an OG :) Cheers!




  • I’ve heard many glowing reviews with this same sentiment. In order to avoid most spoilers, may I ask you here - if I didn’t enjoy Undertale, would I still like this? I didn’t enjoy the metagaming that undertale did, making fun of the player for reloading a save. It felt dishonest. Does Inscryption also do this?


  • I had a similar experience, Op. I was in traffic as it crawled by an accident, and I saw a man giving violent chest compressions to another man in the street. The motocycle was nearby, smashed. I learned later that he passed right there. 21 years old.

    The same question you have nagged at me - did I witness the moment he passed? I spent time looking at the text I sent before I started driving, calculating when I would have driven by, comparing it to when first responders said they got there.

    I’ve decided it doesn’t matter if I was there to see his death. A man died. His name was Miles. I found news reports about him later, and he seemed like a good guy. A firefighter. Well liked. That’s what matters.