This is one of my favourite parts of being non-binary; it’s such a great filter for weeding out people who lack empathy.
People who immediately go “OMG that is SO COMPLICATED sorry but I can’t do that I won’t even try” when they learn that I use they/them pronouns immediately reveal to me that they’re not worth my time, and that they’ll never truly see me and respect me as I am.
This is one of my favourite parts of being non-binary; it’s such a great filter for weeding out people who lack empathy.
People who immediately go “OMG that is SO COMPLICATED sorry but I can’t do that I won’t even try” when they learn that I use they/them pronouns immediately reveal to me that they’re not worth my time, and that they’ll never truly see me and respect me as I am.