I think i’m gonna be promoted soon. Don’t want to tho b/c I feel like I’m not good enough & enjoy being a blue belt. I know it’s not my place to judge and there is nothing I can do which kind of helps actually. Anybody been there?

  • Lucz1848
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    1 year ago

    Do you know what the difference is between a gnarly blue belt and a shitty new purple belt? Nothing. Someone at your gym has to be the worst purple belt. Why can’t it be you?

    You already know how to fix it once you get promoted. If you feel like you aren’t ready, go train until you are. If you feel that your promotion was on time, go train and show how right your coach was to promote you. If you feel that your promotion is long overdue, go train, and show that you’re well on your way to your next belt.

    Embrace the grind, and enjoy your purple belt when you get it. Just know that once it starts feeling really comfortable around your waist, you’ll be on deck for your brown belt.

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    1 year ago

    Reading responses as a newish blue belt with imposter syndrome. Feel I’m ok, but not ok enough and have (if I’m being honest with myself) avoided training due to worry that I’ll be ‘found out’. Thanks for the questions and replies. Thanks also to whomever created this as an alternative to fucking Reddit.

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    Everyone has been there. I’m coming up on brown and I think that’s ridiculous. In the end, who the fuck cares. Just focus on getting better than you are now and ignore the strip of cotton that keeps your gi closed.