• ArbiterXero@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    For sure! But I didn’t say you WERE grabbing titties, just that you’re perceived to be.

    I mean just getting the electrodes on for a defibrillator you have to lift their shirt…

    Can you see that being perceived poorly?

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      9 months ago

      Unlikely that someone holding a defibrillator next to someone passed out on the ground is going to be perceived poorly.

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        9 months ago

        Unfortunately in a panic scenario like that, sometimes people don’t see things as clearly as they might normally.

        And people aren’t great on a normal day either.

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          9 months ago

          Fortunately they are cheap and easy to use correctly (and nearly impossible to use wrong), as such they are all over. If you are in a public place I’d be surprised if you didn’t have ready access to a defibrillator in the US, though you may not realize where it is.

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        9 months ago

        You would think so, right? But the reality is that men are always assumed to have the worst intentions. Especially in hindsight. i.e. “he didn’t need to do that right? he must be trying to cop a feel”.

        Same reason men aren’t usually kindergarten teachers, because they’re immediately assumed to be pedos.

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      9 months ago

      I mean just getting the electrodes on for a defibrillator you have to lift their shirt

      You also need to make sure their bra doesn’t have an underwire and remove it if there is.