I hate the patriarchy.

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Progressive_IslamEnglish · 6 days ago

Hello as a biological male born into an Islamic household there has always been some kind of expectation over me to lead. Lead a family, lead prayers and all of that, and I absolutely hate it.

I absolutely hate the patriarchal standards Islam sets over men, I don’t even think I’ll consider getting married because I don’t want to bear the burden of these responsibilities.

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