• Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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    3 days ago

    Even if you look like the image on the left, your gender is still valid. You shouldn’t have to be “passing” to be allowed to be who you are.

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      3 days ago

      and let’s be clear, anti-trans activists hate passing trans people as much as non-passing trans people - they want to erase all of us

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        21 hours ago

        The end goal is to guarantee any transgender person can be clocked. That’s why they fight so hard to prevent anyone from changing their gender markers on government issued IDs. Republicans won’t be happy until we’ve gone full Scarlet Letters and concentration camp tattoos for every cracked egg.

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        I imagine they hate those who pass FAR more. They need everyone, especially those they hate, to fill obvious roles. A passing trans person is a violation of their ‘natural order’.

        Also makes their private regions all confused.

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          Honestly I think this is part of the motivation for the bathroom bills, if they can force people to out themselves it’s more likely those people will avoid a public existence.

          EDIT: also a major motivation for the anti-trans strategy being so focused on gender markers on IDs, since that is another way people are outed. Someone where I lived was outed when she went to the gym because her license didn’t have an updated marker, and it resulted in a huge scandal after the gym harassed her and then kicked her out of the gym and refused to refund her membership.

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              23 hours ago

              It’s bad, but reading Stone Butch Blues or reading about trans history will make you thankful for the contemporary situation anyway; cross-dressing laws have been repealed in most states, trans people aren’t inherently criminal the way they were in the 1970s. The current U.S. administration wishes to bring us back to a time like that, but the fact that they’re fighting to even stigmatize and criminalize trans people is a massive win for the gay rights / liberation movement compared to where things were at very recently.

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                2 days ago

                It’s all true and undoing decades of slow, grudging and downright painful progress is going to be a very large task for these monsters.

                But, damned if they’re not going to do their worst.

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                  If you wish to feel any comfort, it is helpful to remember that the GOP has a historically narrow majority, Trump didn’t even win a majority of the popular vote, and this was the first time the GOP has won the popular vote in 20 years … this is an unpopular party that only maintains power through slim majorities.

                  All incumbent parties lost elections this past year, so I think it’s just populist anger about inflation and economic concerns rather than anything like an ideological or cultural sea-change towards reaction.

                  Anti-trans legislation remains unpopular, and Trump has the lowest approval ratings entering office of any president on record.

                  The fact that one political party even advocates for LGBT+ rights is a massive improvement even in my lifetime (most of my life both parties have been against LGBT+ rights), and the fact that Dems have largely succeeded in not regressing on this is another major victory for us.

                  So sure, they’ll try to do their worst, but I am not sure it will be enough.

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                    2 days ago

                    I truly hope what I see as optimism is just cold hard pragmatism. All of what you said is true, but we’re in uncharted waters now. We’re the nazi party but with nukes and a LOT of far ranging power.

                    I don’t want to live in country/world where my value is defined by my skin color and sexual orientation. I do not want to prosper because I am a straight white man, but due to what value I add to others. Likewise, I don’t want my trans brethren, along with all of the other ‘undesirables’, to suffer under the yoke of hatred.