cross-posted from: https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/37235684

Obviously reporting transphobic comments to a transphobic mod isn’t going to result in any action, so I’m wondering if the admins are going to do anything about it?

(if someone needs an image description, please ask)

  • jatone@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
    63·
    6 days ago

    Na you’re just playing classic tucker carlson. ‘just asking questions’ nonsense. You see the OP literally linked to research that literally answers your questions but you act like no one has provided you with anything and somehow therr is a debate here. But there isnt, there is just a bunch of misinformed and bigots playing off peoples ignorance.

    Yes im a trained medical professional. So kindly get bent

    • VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      11·
      6 days ago

      I’m not debating anything! I admit I don’t know which is why I was asking for information! I see that OP links to research in the screenshot, but I can’t see any links for me to click in this crosspost OR the original post! I said my opinion and welcomed facts to prove me wrong, and at no point have I tried to argue I’m correct! You’re right, there is no debate, I’m not trying to debate! But I figured someone, maybe even OP, would at least link the studies from the screenshot. Especially since I don’t know what community the discussion originally happened in!

      Maybe the wording of my post drew some ire, and for that I apologize. But I sincerely think that having a misinformed opinion is not cause to shame someone, especially if they’re literally asking for information! If you think that all I’m going to do when I see the studies is call them bullshit, that’s fine, I get it. The internet is hostile and there are bad actors everywhere trying to get people to waste time and energy. But are you seriously going to just shit on me for being ignorant and just tell me “uhhh stop it dumbass” without even trying to educate? I get that I have internalized transphobia… kinda comes with the territory of being a rural trans woman. I just thought this would be the fucking space to ask.

      • jatone@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
        33·
        6 days ago

        That’s nice. Move long Mr. Carlson. ‘welcomed facts to prove me wrong’ says it all. You have enough information from the original image and other comments in this thread to find all of the information you need. Its not our responsibility to educate every asshole carlson running around.

        You’ve at this point:

        1. been given a ton of search terms, article titles, misc information, and direct links to studies within this thread to get started.
        2. been informed by literally everyone here that your view is biologically incorrect and bigoted to boot.

        Now its your turn to take personality responsibility for educating yourself. Like probably every person here has done on their own. If you don’t know how to do this at this point in your life, I suggest community adult education classes, they’re generally free and that person is being paid for their time to teach you basic life skills.

        I will offer to clarify any medical terminology you run into or specific questions about specific sources you find that are from peer reviewed medical journals.

          • jatone@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
            21·
            5 days ago

            lol it took me no effort to shit on you. I, in fact, literally answered your questions in my first response fairly respectfully and told you to seek the opinion of trained professionals.

            Now fuck off. You are not here to learn. you here to be a bigot. thats why we’re not wasting time educating you. My current series of responses are for other people to learn how to handle bigots running around playing the naive idiot card. They’re not for you.

            • VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone
              11·
              5 days ago

              I explained exactly why I felt your response didn’t address my original question, which indicates that you’re not actually reading my responses. You’re deliberately ignoring my other interactions in this thread to call me a bigot. But I guess there’s bad actors on both sides. Even the other person who let me know I was wrong didn’t spend this much time clashing with me. They just informed me I was wrong and that it wasn’t their job to educate me. And you know, I thought that was an unhelpful response at the time…

              I should hope anyone reading this can see the interaction I had with flamingembers where they “wasted time” trying to educate me, and it worked.

              It’s extremely disappointing that you’re ignoring my apologies, attempts to understand your side, and, furthermore, the clarifications I added to my original post. You’re offering the type of discourse that keeps people rooted in their beliefs.

              Take a page out of Mr. Dixon’s book.