Because I believe a man who’s wife left him for another woman is more humiliating than if his wife just left him for another man and in this thread I will explain why.

  1. Your wife leaving you for another woman shows that your performance in the bedroom sucks so bad that she would rather have another woman scissor her or fuck her with a strap on. Instead of having you fuck her with your worthless little dick.

  2. You wife leaving you for another woman shows that you’re even less of a man than the other woman that she is having sex with. Which is so humiliating because it also shows that you’re weak as fuck.

  3. You might say that your wife leaving you for another woman is great because you can at least watch her have sex with another woman but it’s not because that would make you a cuckboy because you’re literally getting cucked by two women.

That’s why in my opinion I think it’s more humiliating if your wife left you for another woman instead of her leaving you for another man.

  • AFK BRB Chocolate@lemmy.worldEnglish
    1·
    23 minutes ago

    Wow, what a bunch of crap.

    Honestly, to me it’s closer to the opposite. If my wife left me for a woman, it would mean that she was more interested in being with women (or, at least, that woman), and there wasn’t a lot I could do as a man. If she left me for another man, that would mean that she was interested in men and found me lacking.

    Your logic just looks like insecurity and homophobia.

      • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
        1·
        4 minutes ago

        Allyship is demonstrated through your actions. Your action in posting this(and pretty much every other post of yours) is very far from being an Ally and actually shows you really don’t know a thing about the community or people you claim to respect.

  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    6·
    5 hours ago

    The heck? You think lesbians aren’t having satisfying sex? That they’d be more satisfied with a man? Or that the only reason someone would leave a relationship is for better sex? I don’t understand this at all.

    If this is flipped, I’d be somewhat more accepting of my guy leaving me because he decides he’s gay (or decides to accept it) if it’s a sex related breakup. But I don’t think most break-ups are primarily sex related at all.

  • SreudianFlip@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
    24·
    8 hours ago

    It’s weak to think of your male identity in this way. It’s uninformed or venally obtuse to think about sexuality this way.

    The only humiliation in this post is how immature it is.

      • SreudianFlip@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
        13·
        8 hours ago

        Misogyny, insecurity, failure to understand how sexual preferences actually work, reducing relationships to venality, and other stupid things…such as asking a general why instead of something more specific or useful.

        • HimedanshiOPEnglish
          1·
          6 hours ago

          Calling me a misogynist is fair so I will give you that. But saying that I’m insecure and saying that I don’t understand how sexual preferences actually work is wrong because. I believe that people are just born with whatever sexual preferences they have

  • jjjalljs@ttrpg.networkEnglish
    14·
    7 hours ago

    I don’t accept the premise that it’s “humiliating” for a partner to leave.

    I don’t accept the premise that them leaving is predicated on sexual performance.

    I don’t accept that f+f sex is inferior to m+f

    I’m not even going to go on. Your world view is rigid and not healthy. Maybe spend some time with other people, if they’ll have you. Get out of whatever manosphere hole you’ve fallen into.

  • southsamurai@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
    6·
    6 hours ago

    Frankly, your entire “reasoning” makes you look weak and outright stupid.

    Either that or you’re so deep into the kink of cuckolding that you’ve forgotten that it isn’t based on healthy relationship interactions, it’s specifically diverging from them.