Totally get this response, but even in the large ramble I gave above it’s hard to share all the details. I do have a job and that pays for all my living expenses including my portion of the mortgage. I have a seperate bank account for any money that I’ve ever gotten in rent, and that money only is ever used for property maintenance, improvements, and paying the mortgage. That account is still at the same amount I put in there when I opened it when I bought the house - not a dollar in rent has been spent on myself. I have not paid myself a dime for the hundreds if not thousands of hours of property maintenance work I’ve done over the years.

I’ve discussed with all my renters if they’d be interested in buying the home, but none are. None are at a stage in life where they are committed to living long term in the area.

Only recently have I moved out - I needed a larger place now that I’m married and have a kid. Since none of the renters are interested in buying, if I wanted to sell, the buyers would almost certainly be larger landlords or corporations and I’m not looking to sell to them. So I’m caught in a catch-22 of not loving the system, but playing the game is a net positive specifically for my renters who I have a great relationship with.