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dullbananas (Joseph Silva) to Showerthoughts@lemmy.worldEnglish · 7 months ago

You have a right to be very respectful to others, and your emotions can't take away that right

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You have a right to be very respectful to others, and your emotions can't take away that right

dullbananas (Joseph Silva) to Showerthoughts@lemmy.worldEnglish · 7 months ago
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    Wut

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      It’s similar to “it’s costs nothing to be nice” but framed in an unusual way so you end up thinking about it more thoroughly

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        It is framed as an obligation to be respectful even if you are angry at them. Which is a reasonable mindset for your friends, but not fascists as the latter doesn’t deserve respect.

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          I view it as a kindness that any human deserves. Having differences in opinion doesn’t change that for me.

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            Do you think Putin deserves kindness?

            What about mass murderers?

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              I think everyone does. That doesn’t mean I approve of their actions, or agree with their opinions.

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                I think that even horrible people deserve to be treated humanly, as in no torture, but not with kindness.

                What does the word kindness mean to you?

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                  I suppose it’s trying to approach any interaction with good intentions for every party, and to treat people humanly. But not necessarily nice or helpful

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        More precisely, you end up feeling more like a victim of the negative emotions that tempt you

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          Are you framing emotions as an adversary to what you’re trying to do/be?

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            Yes if they tempt you to be imperfect

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              I’d argue one could not be perfect without emotion

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                I agree

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      Give people the basic dignity of existence, even when you’re pissed at them.

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        Being respectful isn’t even close same thing as dignity of existence.

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