• ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.netOP
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    I have a buddy who is single and went into a Joe Rogan spiral. Apparently his new biggest fear is talking to a woman who happened to have been born a man.

    When I asked him why? He made up a hypothetical situation of them breaking into his house?

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      Insanity, especially considering trans people are more likely to be victims than perpetrators.

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      Oh god could you imagine how horrible it would be if a transwoman broke into your house

      They’d just eat all my snacks and download F:NV

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      So his concern is having a potential partner that he couldn’t physically outmatch? Can’t think of why a guy like that might be single

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      These guys are telling on themselves. “She used to be a man, so she’ll do [horrible thing].”

      So you do [horrible thing] to your partners??

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        That was my response! I said, “So in a relationship, that’s what you do?”

        And he got kinda mad and changed the subject.

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        Homophobia and transphobia, when you dig into them a bit, are often based in a fear that they’ll be on the other end of toxic masculinity instead of the one they’re used to.

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      It literally only just now clicked that the guy who I was friends with before I transitioned who immediately flipped on me afterward has always been a big Joe Rogan fan. I don’t know why that took so long.

      Anyway, thanks Will Ferrell.

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      Wait what? His biggest fear is if someone breaks into his house he might be trans? Or they might be trans and he’s forced to talk to them?

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      Yeah but if he keeps listening to those shows then they imagine it’s happening all the time.

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    As a German rapper put it: “you hate feminism, because you’re too weak for self-criticism”.

    Feminism, not about trans, but same vibes, I guess.