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    Am I crazy thinking it’s wild to put your kid in residence when there is a housing shortage for students and she has not 1 but 2 houses to live in locally.

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      I’m kind of happy for her to get away from TBP influence. Once she gets an education and learns about the world a bit more (not that she needs University for that but it’ll help) she’s going to catch on to how unhealthy that dynamic is. I hope she gets to explore the world away from online exploitation surrounding her.

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      More like 4 because she probably could live with Nana K if she wanted, and they have that apartment in the basement of her own house.

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      Hmmm…we don’t know where she’s going but some schools strongly recommend (if not mandatory) that 1st year students live on campus. If she is going to an art school proximity to studio time might also be important.

      And, I’m sure there is a good reason why M would want to be on her own. I bet M feels free and safe outside of the house she lives in with Sarah.

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        I definitely see the pros of living on campus but we are living in different times for sure.

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          I have to agree. There’s a real housing crisis in Guelph, especially first years. Taking a spot when you live in the city and can easily commute takes a spot from someone else who doesn’t have the option to commute. At its peak the housing waitlist was 1356 I believe, mostly first years. Parents had a hard time finding off campus housing and many had to go elsewhere. I wouldn’t expect TBP to care about that though. Ideally they would just have enough residence spots for everyone though but apparently can’t count on Guelph to care about that either.

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            It’s pretty disgusting. Imagine all the students who are absolutely stressing about a place to live or how they will even be able to afford it if they can manage it.

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            We don’t know that she is at University of Guelph do we? I don’t even want to speculate but I kinda hopped she was going to OCAD 🙂.

            Edited to add - I see you did some sleuthing 😂. Priviledged SNL has never demonstrated any care for others so that’s not surprising.

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              Yes she is. See screenshot someone above posted.

              EDIT: 🤣 we must have been posting at the same time. Not my sleuthing but you know there’s always a good sleuther around here lol

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                I was 😂! One thing about our Lenny page that I like is that it does seem a little less intense. You informed me kindly to keep me in the know. On the Reddit page every once and a while if you posted something not everyone agreed with it felt like fellow snarkers were coming at me. I didn’t like that part because we were all part of the community for a reason and us being united felt important. When we were intolerant of different ideas it just seemed we were as bad as Sarah and her clique.

                Just something positive to share about everyone who’s come over here. 💕

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                  Agreed. Some snarkers can go a bit overboard but I think this group is pretty chill!

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            I totally agree. If she really wanted the experience of living separately they could have converted the basement apartment for her. Taking public transit at ungodly hours is part of going to university, and would have been doable. It really showcases how much they don’t have to worry about money, otherwise M probably would have chosen one of her multiple living options to avoid accumulating even more debt. I absolutely would have if I had gone to school in the same city as my parents instead of having to pay off all my student loans until I was almost 40. There are a lot of kids who have to delay going to school this year because they can’t afford the living accommodations on top of school tuition.

            Edit to add: I was paying back that many years for a degree that I didn’t even finish. Talk about wasted money.

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            Wow! I didn’t realize this. Thanks for sharing! 🧡

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            Are you Canadian? Just curious how much dorming costs are? My son goes to a state school in SoCal and it costs me just under 10K per year living at home. Dorming would triple costs 😵‍💫

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              Tuition is about the same here. Residence looks like 6500-11,000 at Guelph depending on the room type. On top of that you also have to buy a mandatory meal plan for most residences (I think there are 1 or 2 you don’t need to because they have shared kitchens). Tuition is about 8000 but from my understanding that would be waived in this case as she has a parent who works at the University.

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                I feel like everyone here knows who the 1st husband is and I can’t find it. I know the last name and I think I found a brother. It’s killing me in my “need to know!” Organ! 😂😩

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                  🤣 it takes awhile but scroll WAY BACK on her ig and you will see him

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      She’s a selfish, entitled brat, she doesn’t think about anyone else beyond her bubble 🤬

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    Oh boohoo, birdie has to spend the day with her kids after going to LA to dress up in a dollar store costume and a watch movie. Poor Sarah, feel sorry for Sarah.

    How do people like this woman??? Everything involving her kids is such an inconvenience, it was no inconvenience flying off to LA though!

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      The “she” who booked it was the mother feeling guilty for leaving all the back to school running around to others. The “she” who booked it wants to be seen as the ‘fun’ parent and not the one who makes them get organized for the upcoming school year. The ‘she’ who booked it wants everyone to say how great she is for doing this after such a hard, big career, work trip!

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        Amen!!! Everyone has to do the heavy lifting all week but here’s fun mom sarah swooping in last minute! What a hero.

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          Also - what are chance this big fun day is #gifted 🙄

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      Yet another face palm moment for this person. I’m not sure how it is in Ontario, but in BC, water parks aren’t exactly cheap. To not only complain about having to go after her nonsense, selfish trip, then to imply about how the trip she booked to spend with her kids is an inconvenience, is so fucking tone deaf. I’m sure most families would kill to not only have had a trip away, but to also be able to afford to go to a water park. I’m sure this is also another “content” outing: “look at me! Look at my kids! We’re in bathing suits! I’m shilling this suit, you know!” Gross.

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        It was actually a super ghetto place, that’s run down and they’ll probably end up with a rash anyways, but I get your point. What really bothers me is, they’re taking video, not only of themselves, but other peoples children, in bathing suits, to a public profile that’s known for getting her own kids on x rated sites. I know it’s a public place, but she didn’t even put an emoji over other kids faces or blur them. It’s classless and completely inconsiderate of other people and their right to privacy for their children.

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      You just know she made L pose with her foot and leg over her for this shot. She’s so obvious

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        Silly me thought since she’s just in Guelph she’d go to Bingemans but of course she has to travel all the way to Toronto for a waterpark lol.

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    Some thoughts I have:

    1. I think it’s weird she’s this dramatic about her daughter who’s only with her 50% of the time moving out but in the SAME CITY!?
    2. it’s a new day so that’s yesterdays problem and she’ll never talk about being sad again because it’s a new day and a new theme for her
    3. if I was crying as much as she seemed to be/said she was then I would look like utter death today. Maybe I am just unlucky but no amount of make up, pads (lol), or cold spoons could un puff my eyes. So I call BS on her crying and this proves her use of filters and photoshop.

    Thats all 😂

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      And for the 50% of the time she got to have her kids home she was travelling 50% of that. Travel to fill her ego.

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    She’s just so predictable, making this all about her.

    I’m sure this was hard for most parents - many who won’t see their kids for months. But it’s so thoughtless to cry about it on her public platform… her daughter is in a new place trying to make new friends, I’m sure some follow her mom 🫠

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      Too busy crying to notice her instagramreality reddit post hit 5,000 upvotes. The post is currently blowing up on the Guelph reddit. Guelphites aren’t Birds Papaya fans.

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          I’m so happy she’s finally made it onto the Guelph reddit page!! The more traction this gets the better.

          ETA: one commentator on the post made me think it was Shane for a hot second. I even looked at their comments elsewhere and lots of magic the gathering stuff, etc. but other posts of theirs steered me off of thinking it was Shane.

          Also if someone has the shrinking Shane video, you should post it on the guelph Reddit post!

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            I love how she got her Reddit page shut down and as a result has evolved to now spreading awareness to multiple Reddit subs and Lemmy 😂

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              Not gonna lie, I had no idea who that person was before you all came here, but that’s kind of a hidden blessing 😄

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              I’m just waiting for a spiral in the coming days. Her PMDD is going to make a comeback after months without a mention.

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            Same! I think I know who you mean! I think there was one random Brazil comment that made me think maybe not…but who knows lol

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              Yupp the Brazil comment and they had a post about their kid turning 1 (obvs L is older than that) and looking for places to have a party. Unless they make other posts to throw off the scent and looking too obviously like Shane haha.

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                Guess where they’re going to go see the eagles play?

                Gotta be him.

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                  I called them out this morning and asked why they’re defending her so much. He said he didn’t like seeing someone be piled onto this much. Give me a break, claims to know nothing about her yet doesn’t like people piling on her even though we’re justified.

                  Maybe it really is Shane’s burner lol

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              It’s a real shocking coincidence where she wants to take him to see the eagles play, then. 🇧🇷

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        This is amazing! I’m going to pop in and look at the Guelph Reddit!

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            She’s only been super kind because she got something she wanted from them, then onto the next grift

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      I am sometimes a little overwhelmed with the disgust I feel when she acts like this. She has her older kids 50% of the time and very often flippantly chooses to travel “for work”, like she did this week, all for her own glory. Did she miss M then?!

      I wonder what happened to Sarah when she left home?!

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        This is how I feel. Her over the top drama performance over her kid going to school 10 mins away is simply far too much. I feel like she’s making her loyal flock think her daughter has gone off to university far away and it’s legit the hardest thing she’s ever done, when in reality she’s just down the road. Like you said, she has no issue saying yes to every event that takes her away from her kids but god forbid her daughter go off to university without her having the worst acting performance of all time over it. Like get a grip honestly. She needs attention so badly, that’s why she acts like this because she just wants people flooding her inbox with words of sympathy.

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      Jfc I can’t stand watching her cry!!! I can not even imagine setting up my camera to have a cry like this. Her face hardly moves, it’s all too much. She is so desperate for attention. M probably feels like crap over leaving just because of this performance.

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      I wonder if her face moved and her crying looked less forced we might believe her.

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      Her daughter is in the same city FFS! She is so attention-seeking!

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        Did I miss it or has she not disclosed to her followers her daughter is literally a 10 min car ride away??

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          As far as I know she hasn’t mentioned it - she’s letting them all think M is in another city

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          The last thing M needs is for anyone new she meets to find her mother’s IG!

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    I know the old sub isn’t here for the receipts but we all knew she’d make this all about Sarah. I think someone even said she’ll make it all about how she never got to go to university. How gross and predictable she is!

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      I find this entire episode so performative. She isn’t going away to university. She is in the same city and she doesn’t even live with her full-time as it is so nothing is really changing. If this university offered guaranteed residence to all first year students I would have no problem with a local kid moving in but this doesn’t seem to be the case at this university. Does Birdie have any idea how parents of those kids who don’t live in the city must feel with their 17-year-old is really leaving home and they now have to find them a place to live as well as set them up to really fend for themselves off campus? She doesn’t care. The fact M is taking up space and planning to spend weekends with her parents makes it even worse!

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      So she literally posts from the room pretty much and 9 minutes later it’s ‘we’re back home’ and she’s crying 🙄

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        In 2 min on google I found her kids exact res building. Sarah or Shame, take down the videos and post, you are putting your kids life at risk.

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      Look at that filter! Her eyes are not that large 🤣

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    “A little more grey” basically her shitting on her husband since she’s obviously not talking about herself little miss 5 hour hair appointments. Can’t move her face. Massive inflated lips. Refuses to age. Filters herself to look skinnier. At least he’s real as much as I say he’s a slob. Like she doesn’t even look like herself ffs.

    (Nothing wrong with dying hair to get rid of greys, I do it myself!!! Just felt her “little more grey” comment was unnecessary when she’s clearly not referring to herself here).

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      Look at the photos with her daughter. Sarah she had no lines. Her daughter had normal movement lines on her neck. Sarah filtered herself to be younger than her child. If Sarah didn’t buy followers and engagement, she’d be done.

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      I also wonder what her big anniversary gift was since everyone is gonna freak out apparently! Why does she thinks everyone is going to freak out over what she spent more money on when most are having a hard time getting by and likely don’t even buy anniversary gifts for their significant others to save money. Just a way to make us feel guilty for not being as extravagant as she is.

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        Noticed she’s wearing Falcon merch when she posted about it… what are the odds she’s surprising her husband with a gift that’s more about something SHE is obsessed with 🤣

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          I wondered that too! A gift that’s really for her, sounds like a Sarah thing to do. Another “much needed” vacation to an Eagles game probably.

          Also everything about her looks sf weird here

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            I think she’s trying to look natural, make up free etc. See Guelph Reddit - they are lying! I don’t filter!!

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          You’re right 😂😂 she prob put something out into the universe that ended up on her doorstep

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        Like her big girls trip to target 😂😂. She only treats herself apparently.

        How crazy to think she was on the cover of a parenting magazine, how sick. Hope she gives us some relationship advice too. She’s divorced and now happily ever after don’t you know!

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    This whole story about how her followers sending messages about how talented M is after she shared this photo from the school showing is what made M take the leap to apply for school is bs. She had already been accepted into her program at this point in time. I think I’m remembering this correctly. Birdie is making her followers feel a part of M’s journey and strengthening that parasocial relationship she counts on for her income.

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      I was thinking the EXACT same thing but was too lazy to go back and check timestamps! At the very least, she would have already applied by then. Also Studio Arts at that particular school is a program that requires no portfolio so technically even inexperienced artists have a shot as well to work on their skill.

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    She just publically shared private conversations she had with M and what she did on her first night at school. (unless Sarah made it up-also plausible) The audacity to publically share that for content. She sinks to a new low every day.

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      Agree. She needs to just let that girl live her life in peace at university, her followers don’t need to know M’s social life at university. It isn’t any of our business and I’m sure M would agree.

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        She needs to heed one of her fave Disney characters and “Let it Go”, give her adult child the privacy she deserves and obviously wants.

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    Just in case we all forgot she’s been married twice 🤣

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    https://www.instagram.com/p/C_S1gGBx_q7/?igsh=bzJja3c2NzB1aG4z

    This spread of Ilona is so amazing, and I’m so glad she’s being celebrated. She’s worked her ass off and dealt with so much ACTUAL hate over her body but doesn’t have anything to prove. Of course, all bodies deserve to be celebrated, but she is real body positivity to me. I also love the points being made. I bet it’s killing B that she wasn’t championed like this. Except for those for pay Yahoo articles.

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      I love that Ilona talks about her body in terms of what it does for her rather than what it looks like. THAT is what is important and is what we should be paying attention to.

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    I’m shocked Sarah didn’t have a waterpark made up story “I was just relaxing at the park and a woman came up to me in a two piece swimsuit and told me she’s so inspired by me and I’m the reason she felt confident enough to show up at the waterpark in a two piece. This is why I do what I do” lol

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    Don’t wanna be that d*ck person and I am ALL for shading her, but by the looks of the most recent thread about M and school, both M and the ex husband have been doxxed. I know TBP did it to M herself, but continuing it on is not helping. Knowing the ex also wants to keep a private life, outing where he works is kinda dumpy, regardless of a simple google search.

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    Ok I was looking for something waaaaayyy back in her timeline and I came across these two photos.

    On the left: she has actually pulled her bathing suit up her ass! So fucking stupid.

    On the right: WHY? What the actual fuck? What mother puts her bathing suit clad young children on the Internet? I can’t even believe how ridiculously irresponsible this is. I am not a paranoid or alarmist person but this is INSANE! there’s another pic where faces Are visible. Omfg!!! I’m truly horrified.

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      I fully agree with you but can you censor them out and repost the pic with them blurred or painted over? Want to make sure we’re not inadvertently contributing to the issue!

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        Oof I totally meant to and then forgot! My bad. Fixed it I think. Thx!

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    Not on a current topic… But talking about stocks with my husband tonight gave me a 💡… Does anyone know when TBP “allegedly” bought into Kni×? Follow up: Is anyone/ does anyone have contacts in the finance world to ask if there would be any…conflicts: Kni× was sold in 2022. I don’t want to say the actual words, because I may be reaching.