• Clent@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    This is often the case with abusers. Actual abuse victims rarely want to talk about their abuse with people they are close with, let alone random internet strangers.

    Someone who runs around telling anyone who will listen how they were abused or mistreated is more likely to be the perpetrator of abuse than the victim of abuse. The more recent the abuse the more likely this is true.

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      4 months ago

      The whole abuse dialogue about her ex sounded more like Sarah running a smear campaign. There’s a 99.9% chance Sarah cheated on her ex husband then said “I was abused.”

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        Like how she started working for Shane, with zero credentials and nobody else was interviewed, and got the job as a food editor, two weeks after she left her ex? How she worked as a server at Shane’s fav restaurant? I guarantee you she fed Shane a BS narrative about being a poor mistreated single mom on the brink of homelessnesa—-meanwhile she’s been a kept woman her entire adult life… “I didn’t even have my own bank account” yeah she also refused to drive anywhere and wouldn’t go anywhere alone with her kids (her words)she had no experience yet was able to buy a house and car and pay all the bills? No. Her parents and Shane did it for her. She shopped, took selfies, and played makeup and hair and had very little responsibilities. We all see how Nana K does it all. I’m sure she raised those kids when they were little.