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minus-squaretrolololol@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up5arrow-down26·5 months agoYou’re taking the one bad experience with a so called friend too far.
minus-squareRozaŭtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up37·5 months ago"Hey, I know barely anything about you but I can tell your feelings are not valid’. Trauma doesn’t work like that, you don’t just get over it on command.
minus-squaremosiacmango@lemm.eelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up8·edit-25 months agoAnd hes proactively ending it with him by helping his kids learn healthy views about individual tastes and respecting others. Even if he can’t “fix” it for himself, he has already protected others.
minus-squaretrolololol@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·4 months agoYep I get it now. I still wish his friends get shafted tho
minus-squareblady_blah@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·4 months agoIt wasn’t just one experience, that’s just the one that sticks in my mind the most. I was also a shy dorky kid and I avoided social conflict and I didn’t care enough to dive into music and find what I liked back then.
minus-squaretrolololol@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·4 months agoSorry to hear that F your so called friend. And I hope you get to enjoy music without shame for the rest of your life
You’re taking the one bad experience with a so called friend too far.
"Hey, I know barely anything about you but I can tell your feelings are not valid’.
Trauma doesn’t work like that, you don’t just get over it on command.
And hes proactively ending it with him by helping his kids learn healthy views about individual tastes and respecting others.
Even if he can’t “fix” it for himself, he has already protected others.
Yep I get it now.
I still wish his friends get shafted tho
It wasn’t just one experience, that’s just the one that sticks in my mind the most.
I was also a shy dorky kid and I avoided social conflict and I didn’t care enough to dive into music and find what I liked back then.
Sorry to hear that
F your so called friend. And I hope you get to enjoy music without shame for the rest of your life