• Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
    501·
    5 months ago

    That girl is getting that guy a gym membership and a new stylist.

    I have no doubt that if I showed this to.my wife she’d be like…

  • pyre@lemmy.world
    101·
    5 months ago

    i shouldn’t be surprised that so many people on lemmy haven’t seen women IRL but Jesus Christ… touch grass, people.

    • BarrelAgedBoredom@lemm.ee
      604·
      5 months ago

      If you have to start a sentence with “I don’t want to be racist but…” That’s probably a thought you should keep to yourself if you don’t want people to think you’re racist

      • Kowowow
        527·
        5 months ago

        I can’t say I care that much I just was hoping to point to it as a something wrong with her face, so abliest over racist I guess but that doesn’t sound good iether

        • BarrelAgedBoredom@lemm.ee
          242·
          5 months ago

          What about that picture indicates she’s disabled? Why say something that is solely to point out some random persons perceived flaws? How did you think anything you’ve written in these comments was pertinent/contributed to anything? The fact that you thought you were being either racist or ableist with your comments and decided to post them anyway is mind boggling

          • Kowowow
            222·
            5 months ago

            Look I don’t think a was being racist I was just trying to cover my bases because I’ve been told I’m terrible at not just thinking everyone I see is white, you know unless it’s super obvious

            I only really felt comfortable saying what I said because I was like 99 percent sure she wasn’t from some group where that would be a slur against her, the ableist thing was me assuming that look based stuff would be covered under that

            • brandocorp@lemmy.dbzer0.com
              21·
              5 months ago

              Maybe the better thing to concentrate on is why you felt like that comment was necessary. You didn’t seem to have a goal behind it, other than drawing more attention. It’s really not relevant to the discussion or the post. So why post it? It felt like your intention was just to talk shit about a random person, and maybe you should think about that.

              • Kowowow
                116·
                5 months ago

                uh sure I just have never seen something like that before like I had to check both sides of the image to make sure her face wasn’t edited too

                • notanaltaccount@lemmy.world
                  7·
                  5 months ago

                  We get it: she’s not your type. She is out having fun with her boyfriend having a drink. Honestly, your language just seems like mean juvenile bullying shit.

                  She, or people she knows, may end up reading your bullying post.

                  Honestly, did you really hope to learn something from your comment or gain a perspective? No, of course it’s fucking bullying.

                  How does her ethnic background or facial characteristics (as shown in a single photo while she’s out with her boyfriend at a cocktail place) relate to the funny part of the tweet? Can’t it just be a funny tweet?

    • RageAgainstTheRich@lemmy.world
      374·
      5 months ago

      If you don’t want to be mean or racist, then shut up maybe? Why do you people always have to type out your mean shit and click send?

      • Kowowow
        411·
        5 months ago

        Because I thought coming across as racist or mean would be unlikely, maybe it would have looked better to not try and use that defence

    • EtherWhack@lemmy.world
      8·
      5 months ago

      It’s her makeup and artifact correction making it look that way. It even gave her a bit of a squared jaw.