• go_go_gadget@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    If there’s a plan for a better outcome I can white knuckle my way through a lot of situations in life. Sure, shit happens and sometimes we just gotta deal with it but if I feel like this isn’t something we’re going to be able to avoid in the future I want to opt out entirely. Think of a camping trip where the tent is leaking. If we’re not planning on replacing the tent I don’t want to go camping again.

    So with Biden sure I can white knuckle through it if I think 2028 primaries are going to produce someone better but they won’t. You can blame “young voters” if you want. Personally I point to the fact that nobody is apologizing for voting for Biden in the 2020 primaries. If they’re not apologizing that means they don’t see how their decisions negatively impacted me or don’t see a problem with negatively impacting me so they’re going to repeat the behavior.

    I’m not interested in white knuckling through that. People are free to keep camping with a leaky tent I won’t stop them but I won’t be participating any more than I can control.

    Please don’t respond with some kind of counter comparative example or taking my made up comparison to some kind of scientific degree. It’s just a conceptual tool for the purposes of the conversation. Telling me it doesn’t apply isn’t going to change the way I view the situation or my decisions.

    If I get the sense that 2028 would somehow be better I’d reconsider.

    • JonEFive@midwest.social
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      2 months ago

      Even though you preemptively asked people not to provide a counterpoint, I feel the need to highlight a problem with your analogy that you seen to already be aware of.

      Your position of “I don’t want to go camping anymore” is a fantasy. The only way to achieve that is to emigrate to another country. The real situation is: you’re going to sleep outside. Do you want a leaky tent or a ragged old tarp? Those are your only two choices. If you do not make a choice, then you are leaving the choice up to everyone else.

      If you’re okay with that, then sobeit. It is your right to opt out of participating in the political process, but that doesn’t change which tent you’re going to end up sleeping in. If you’re an American, you’re along for the ride whether you like it or not. Your choice to opt out does not change the outcome, it merely cedes control to everyone else.

      I tend to agree with your main point though. I’m pretty exhausted with everyone around me selecting the same deteriorated tents that we’ve been using for the last 50 years because “that’s the only way enough people will select it over the moldy tarp” instead of considering a new one that actually works, or at least has fewer leaks.