• Flying Squid@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    I guess. It just annoys me when people downvote me a whole bunch when I ask a question but don’t explain their downvotes. I don’t care if I say something and everyone on Lemmy thinks it’s worth downvoting and I get 2500 downvotes or whatever, but I just think people should have the basic courtesy to explain why.

    I know they won’t, but it still annoys me.

    EDIT: See, in this response (I’m editing just because I saw it already had a few downvotes) I don’t care if I get dozens of downvotes to this comment and no one responds. It’s when I ask a question. I don’t downvote people for asking questions unless I also respond. If I don’t like their question, I’ll explain why. I think that’s just courteous. But maybe I’m in a minority. Courtesy is mostly dead on the internet anyway.

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      11 months ago

      If you complain about downvotes you’re just letting people get your goat and you’re making sure they know they got it.

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      11 months ago

      Typing is hard, voting is easy. Reddit was the same way. Just accept it and move on, frequently things shift the other way and you get comments if you’re just patient.

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      11 months ago

      I feel like people downvote like that when they don’t like how the comment makes them feel, but can’t be bothered to think about why that’s the case.

      And I have no interest in what those people think feel.

      Alternatively, it can make me do a double take, and reconsider my own reasoning, just to make sure I haven’t made an error, in fact or in judgment. I don’t think you need to do that here; what the adult said was most definitely a potential threat.