I assume there must be a reason why sign language is superior but I genuinely don’t know why.

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    10 months ago

    So my take on this comes from having a hearing friend who grew up in a anti-cochlear implant / hearing restoration family (deaf parents, grandparents, her and her sister are the only immediate family with “normal” hearing) and their preference was definitely to drive ASL which probably informs my outsider take on the matter.

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      Now, I’m not part of the deaf community in any real way (don’t know any deaf people, and only a few who know sign, but I used to know the alphabet), but im badly near-sighted. Like, I didn’t realize that everyone else could see individual leaves on trees instead of vague green blobs where the canopy was. And birds just disappeared into them. The first time I saw a Monet painting, and impressionist art in general, while I still appreciated the beauty my first thought was, “Ah, a painting of the world as seen by a near-sighted person.” That said, I’m very happy to wear glasses and see a truer representation of what the rest of the world sees rather than walking through life in an impressionistic world.

      So, for me, I can’t see why anyone would choose to perceive less of the world than they could. If I could further augment my senses in a convenient manner, I would. If my parents had had to choose between some surgery and me being isolated from so much of the world, I’d ask for the surgery if I could.

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        10 months ago

        The TV show See does a pretty good job of covering the why for this.

        My understanding is that part of it is a “we’re not broken, we’re full people” along with “this is our culture” and the restoration of hearing is an erasure or something? I struggle to understand it myself and as a parent I would gladly lose my vision too if it meant restoring any healthy functioning for my son. It’s weird to me/

        That said, I’m an outsider so I am only judging not understanding entirely.

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          Yes, I get the culture aspect of it, I’ve seen and read a fair amount on the subject, but I just can’t see it as worth it. And as technology improves, it’s going to be even harder. As for the not broken, I disagree with that, too. It doesn’t make them less of people, just like not being able to walk or see doesn’t, but there are still many things the average person can do that they can’t, just like how I can’t legally drive without corrective lenses and would be pretty nervous if I had to.